There is no end to it.
So,it has nothing to with financial,social or political background.There is no use talking and writing about women being tortured. Men will define it as feminist approach towards life and women find it irrelevant until it happens to them.. Misbehavior with women is not a national issue. It is a global problem.I can still remember the day when I first read in a newspaper about a father who raped his daughter in a hotel room while accompanying her for her medical entrance examinations.Many girls would agree with me if I say that after reading such reports,the first thing which occurs in our mind is " is it true? can this happen? a father!!!! Then the second thing we do is thanking God for providing us a safe family.But all of us are not so lucky obviously. 10 years back this news was a big breaking news but now it has become a Column.Now eyebrows are not raised in disbelief when we get to hear a father raping his daughter,a brother raping his sister and a girl raped by a gang or a woman raped my men much younger to her. Rape,Molestation and misbehavior with women are crimes which are being committed in every cast,creed,community, and religion.Women irrespective of their social and financial status are being tortured and ill treated. When I was less informed I used to think that illiteracy ,poverty and unawareness lead a woman towards these unwanted situations but if a Miss World is being ill- treated by her husband then it puts a full stop on the social and financial aspects of the crime .Former Miss World and Bollywood actor Yukta Mookhey, 36, registered a complaint of mental and physical abuse against her Nagpur-based husband, hotelier Prince Tuli, and her in-laws at Amboli police station Thursday night.
The most recent is Zinta's three-page complaint at Mumbai's Marine Drive police station alleges that Wadia abused and screamed at her, caught her arm and pulled her during an IPL match in Mumbai on May 30.
The most recent is Zinta's three-page complaint at Mumbai's Marine Drive police station alleges that Wadia abused and screamed at her, caught her arm and pulled her during an IPL match in Mumbai on May 30.
When the unfortunate Nirbhaya tragedy happened ,nobody ever imagined that it is not going to slow down from there..Every second a girl is being victimized,whether outside or within the so called secure walls of a family and there is no end to it.The grey side of character has become so dominant that it has crossed the boundaries of relation,age and above all humanity.
There is no end to it. Men in their concept are still masters and they can decide whatever they want at any point of time. Not all but most of them are still living in a world where girls are supposed to be a thing of entertainment.
Why girls are still treated as victims? Why pain is less for the one who is the culprit. Why girls have to safeguard their body like borders ? Why man's value is judged by his occupation and girl's value by her character and that also in the terms of her ideas on men and relationship. Divorce for a man is liberty and divorce for a woman is disgrace.
I don't know the solution because every time I think of a solution ,it reminds me of the problem which is created by men. It is not something which was there all the time. It is man made. Solution should come out from them who have created this problem.
But all what a girl's pen demands is the pain has to go, the suffering has to come to an end, the heart must start feeling life again.
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